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Frustrated, Irritated, Disconnected

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I've felt the hell Please help me, hold me This life I'll never tell Sometime soon my wish will come true because the end is near but you see my eyes through the tears One fake face after another Love the haters I don't wanna be like that where no one's real I hate how that would feel Frustrated, Irritated Disconnected from it all I'm asking, I'm pleading for one thing that's real To you I'm giving in Come take me, Come save me I want to start again I'll open my broken heart Because I've reached the end And you are the way to begin ___ I've seen a million empty smiles Living in denial I don't wanna live like that where nothing's real I hate how it is to feel Frustrated, Irritated Disconnected from it all The weight of the world Has pushed me to the wall I'm breaking, I'm aching for something beautiful All the riches in this world Couldn't fill this great big hole It takes something so much more Only you can take me You ca...

The Republic day of India

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The Republic day of India commenced from 26 January, 1950 signifies the transition of India from a British dominion to a Republic and in the present days is considered as a national holiday. The day also signifies the adoption of the Constitution of India. It is regarded in the present days as one of the three national holidays in India . It is also the d ay when the entire country realized the dream of Mahatma Gandhi and the numerous freedom fighters who, fought for and sacrificed their lives for the Independence of their country. To mark the importance of the occasion the Republic Day is celebrated with a lot of enthusiasm all over the country and especially in the capital New Delhi , where the celebratio ns are initiated with the Presidential to the nation. But this is also followed by the solemn reminder of the role and sacrifice of the martyrs who died for the sake of the country in the freedom movement and also in the succeeding wars for the defense of sovereignty of the...

Is Sacrifices Necessary In Relationships?

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Ask anyone who's been in a relationship for any length of time and they're likely to tell you that adjustments and sacrifices are part and parcel of any relationship. Not just in a marriage or a long term relationship with your lover, but even with your parents, siblings or with friends - sacrifices are unavoidable. But are such sacrifices really important to a relationship? Do bonds become stronger with adjustments and sacrifices? People with a modern outlook towards relationships feel that one should not have to make sacrifices to keep any relationship going. If the other person loves you, they should not demand sacrifices from you, nor should they expect it. Someone who expects you to give up things that you love, or change the way you are doesn't truly love you. An experience person says that Sacrifices and adjustments can have a very positive impact on a relationship. Not just big adjustments such as leaving your job to be at home with the kids; but even smaller sacr...

A perfect pair

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I’m glad I have a friend like you. I’m so glad you’re here. I can tell you anything at all, That’s why I hold you dear. I found a place to escape, It’s safe and warm inside. It’s in your loving arms of friendship, the best place for me to hide. We are best friends, The perfect pair! We never fight, we always share. Of all the friends that I have, There is one thing that I know. You’re the best, and that’s a fact, ‘Cause I know you’ll never go. When I’m sad and lonely, I can count on you to be there. Because I know you love me, and because I know you care.

I wanna be free

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All my life I've followed signs On many a road *** Tried to find What was right And do what I'm told *** But sometimes You cross the line And never can go back home *** I've been here And I've been there Always on the go *** Looking for Something more To call my own *** Up to now I have found That life as a whole was cold *** 'Cause I've never belonged *** I wanna be free And live without warning I wanna finally see What it's like on the other side *** I wanna be free 'Cause a new day is dawning I only wanna be me I wanna show the world I'm alive *** Who's to say I need change And I am not what I'm not *** Look at me And what you see Has been through a lot *** Now it's time For me to find What love's really all about And all that I've lived without ***

Tired of Being Lonely

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Tired of living in this homeless house, Sitting in this empty chair, Breathing this lonely air, Accompanied with these dreadful tears, *** Blurry dreams of togetherness, Torn apart by confident reality, LOVES' absent fidelity, Seems to have -beheaded me, *** In my hearts' wilderness roams a wilder beast of pain, Queen of her land never to be slain, For her companionship is thee only one that could tame, 'Till then she remains, Toying with my feelings as if it was just a game, *** See i have no one to call my own, Just wishes of a relationship, So tired of being alone, I pray to sleep with happiness... *** “I just can’t understand how people spend all time sitting alone at home!”

"You don't Understand"

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I don't think you understand, Then again many don't, But I thought you would understand, Then again I guess you won't. *** Is it that you don't trust me? Like my father did before? Why has it change? Or maybe you just changed more. *** It doesn't have to be this way. Why are you torturing me? Little by litttle my minds gone insane. I'm crying can't you see? You are supposed to be the one to wipe up my tears, *** But now its all you to blame, You are supposed to be the one to chase away my fears, but now your the place from which they came. I really don't think you understand, Things arn't as they seem, I can't try to make you understand, Cause you just won't listen to me. You just don't understand. “Most people don't understand me not because they can't it's just that they won't try.”

How to be Happy and Have Fun Changing the World?

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Little progress can be made by merely attempting to repress What is evil; our great hope lies in developing what is good. To put the world in order, we must first put the nation in order; To put the nation in order, we must put the family in order; To put the family in order, we must cultivate our personal life; And to cultivate our personal life, we must first set our hearts right. The more man meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and the world at large. If you think in terms of a year, plant a seed; If in terms of ten years, plant trees; If in terms of 100 years, teach the people. If enough individuals were always truthful, positive and helping others, would it change the world we live in? You know it would. The only possibility that this will happen depends on you and millions of others like you. If you want to have fun helping to change the world, start with yourself by doing your best to live the Daily Affirmation 100% and recommend others to read my post a...

Over-passiveness can break relationship:

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When love generates in the initial stages each other wants to behave accordingly to their taste of their partner. When the closeness develops obviously one thinks that he/she belongs only to them which is generally known as passiveness, but it creates distance between both in the near future. Because in passiveness you demand everything should be done according to your wish or liking which surely hurts your partner. If your love wants to be strengthened try to give her/him more comfort from your end, so that she/he will be happy in your companionship and makes her/his mind only for you. If you are so caring for her/him, try to give more from your side by expecting less from your end. I think this type of attitude will surely built strong and healthy relationship. Possessiveness will be counterproductive and may land you in grief in the long run. At that time it may be too late to even regret. While it could be construed as love from your side and may thrill your girl friend/boy friend/...

He mends me!!!

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Look at me I'm not the girl I used to be When he smiles at me I live the light I used to see There he goes and I know On my own I'm not whole Can't believe he can't see That he's taken the best part of me I'm half a girl with half a heart With nothing left to tear apart Half of me is walking 'round The other half is on the ground He mends me What's to see I had it all in front of me It's all on me All in the name of vanity There he goes and I know On my own I'm not whole Can't believe he can't see That he's taken the best part of me I'm half a girl with half a heart With nothing left to tear apart Half of me is walking 'round The other half is on the groundHe mends me Tell me where I am nothing else can replace him how do i go on the way I am I'm half a girl with half a heart With nothing left to tear apart Half of me is walking 'round The other half is on the ground He mends me.

Things can be settled calmly in relationships

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It is normal for a couple to quarrel at times. The fight may be caused by some misunderstanding or it may be because of some things such as incompatibility of interests or mistakes. One of the most difficult things to do after a hot fight or argument is to make up. Mending up things after a hot argument is crucial for a relationship. This will allow you to start over again and can even help in fostering a stronger bond in the relationship. If you and your man has just gone through an argument and you do not know how to make up with your man after a fight, here are some tips on how to mend up things after a hot argument: Say sorry. There may be different means to mend up things after a fight but nothing beats the traditional and classical way of saying sorry. The best thing to show to your boyfriend or husband that you want to make up with him is to say sorry. Saying sorry is very difficult and challenging most especially if you are prideful enough and you believe that you were not the ...

Moving too fast in relationship

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It takes two: Communicate your thoughts with your partner and work together to steady the pace of your relationship. Give yourselves some space: Being your own person and focusing on your own interests can only help a relationship grow. Relationships can move too slowly, too: You might have a problem if you’ve been dating for a long time, and you’re not moving toward commitment as a couple. Make decisions on your own: If you can’t make a decision without the input of the person you are dating, things are definitely moving too fast between the two of you. Stay in touch with friends and family: A major sign that a relationship’s pace is off is that you no longer see anyone other than the person you’re dating.